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March 31, 2013

March bike ride

March is a magnificent time to be in California. For a few short weeks the Golden State is painted in a rainbow of greens, yellows and pinks. The paths are so beautiful and the air so sweet, you’d think you landed in Eden. I can’t remember the last time I experienced a Spring so gorgeous. I feel so blessed to be here. Anchored and aware.

It helps that I’ve recently taken up cycling as a hobby. It makes everyday travel completely possible in a place like NorCal. So much of my angst over the past five years stems from my desire to wander. After taking a year off from work in 2009, I’ve never completely shaken the desire to be back on the road playing vagabond again. Once you get a taste of ultimate freedom, it’s hard to accept anything less.

Riding around our neighborhood the other day, I came to a realization that so much of my love for travel stems from its ability to inspire in me new ways of seeing the world. When I wander Paris, Rome or Bangkok, I picture myself in the ghost ship of a parallel life, the one I’d be sailing had I made different choices. This mind exercise isn’t melancholic or anxious. If anything, it opens up a part of my psyche that usually lies dormant during the hustle and bustle of daily life. It’s transformative to let yourself imagine what’s possible, to set dreams into motion and visualize a lifestyle completely different from the status quo.

Passing through tree lined neighborhoods flanked by million(s) dollar mansions, I let myself imagine my future kids running around in the front yard, their screams and laughter permeating the street.  I picture family barbecues and summer bonfires and long warm nights sipping wine with friends.  Projecting a domestic family life is a foreign experience for me.  Usually, my daydreams are composed of swank downtown lofts in faraway urban jungles or beachside villas and moonlit dance parties.  Little kids and a barbecue grill have never made it into my wish list, until now.

Travel, even everyday local travel, is a mirror.  It forces us to gauge our real selves against our idealized selves.  It enables us to imagine worlds and lifestyles different from our own.  These days, the daydream of a big front yard full of happy, screaming babies sets my heart abloom.  Tomorrow, it’ll be different.  Tomorrow, it’ll be another destination, another street, another route/trip/adventure. And in turn, another daydream built anew.

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Rain in Kauai

December 15, 2012

“His death was quiet, like rain on the sea.” – Anne Michaels, Fugitive Pieces

Light is best before or after a storm. I still can’t believe how beautiful this photo turned out, considering how quickly the sky turned stormy and dark. It’s one of my favorite travel photographs.

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Kauai: Land of Rain

December 11, 2012

It’s our last day in Kauai. It’s been a long, languid week of sea, sun and jungle rain. Time passes slowly here on this five million year old island, where it rains more than any other place on earth. People are friendlier, they smile more easily, they seem happier.  To live simply, in God’s Green Isle, must really be good for the soul.

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Family Road Trips

December 5, 2012

Hawaii, Maui

For as long as I can remember, our family vacations were spent in cars, journeying across Western Canada and the US. Trips to Airdrie, Banff, Drumheller and Edmonton became monthly rituals. We found every excuse to get in the car and just ride. I remember weekly trips to Mackay’s Ice Cream in Cochraine after Sunday mass. We’d pass the wealthy neighborhoods of Bearspaw and Springbank, with their large acreages and golf courses. I’d daydream about living in one of those big houses one day, with a yard big enough for a trampoline. I think we enjoyed the drive up more than the ice cream cones, in the end.

Our first big road trip was in 1991 when we drove from Calgary to Vancouver in a grey, rusty 1985 Honda Civic that my dad bought used when we first moved to Toronto. I don’t remember how hot it was without air-conditioning (the car didn’t have it) and I don’t remember how many hours we spent in that back seat (eleven, to be exact). What I do remember is how thrilling it was to watch the prairies turn into rockies, the rockies into pine forests and pine forests to big city lights. The hours passed quickly. My brother and I would look out for caribou, deer, elk, beaver. We’d make up songs, play road-trip bingo, recite stories about the cowboy lives we could be living out in the wilderness. We discovered the world through the windows of our little car, with the wind whipping in our hair, the radio blasting, cheese curls and Fruit Loops in our laps. We drove to Seattle, Las Vegas, Disneyland, San Diego and even Tijuana in that little un-airconditioned Honda.

Soon, we upgraded to a van – a wild berry colored Chrysler Grand Voyager, with a maroon interior and bucket seats. It had room enough for Bope’s (the hamster’s) cage, all the food we could want, pillows, blankets and several weeks worth of luggage. The road trips became ritual then. We visited Banff every weekend and if not, we’d go find some other place to drive to: strawberry orchards, Glacier National Park, Jasper, Kananaskis. My fondest memories were of rainy evenings driving through the rockies, the windshield wipers swiping to the beat of Tina Turner’s Greatest Hits. I know every word to every song in that casette tape. And if not Tina Turner, it was Kenny Rogers.

Hawaii, Maui

Hawaii, Maui

This past week, we paid homage to our family road trip traditions while on vacation in Maui. Instead of day-long beach escapades and snorkel trips, we drove the lush jungles of the Hana Highway all the way round to Kipahulu’s barren fields. We drove the misty up-country roads of the Makawao Forest Reserve and winded our way up to Haleakala National Park. With the roads mostly to ourselves, we had ample time to visit volcanic beaches and red clay canyons along the way. We passed cattle grazing on the highway, stopped at road-side trailers for bites to eat, explored two hundred year old churches that time forgot. And in true form, the three of us often fell asleep to leave Dad at the helm.  Minus the hamster cage and Fruit Loops, it felt like we’d traveled back in time for a few days. Just us, our car and the wide open road ahead.

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Crossing time zones

December 1, 2012

The best thing about Hawaii is its proximity. Five hours on a plane from San Francisco and you’re in the tropics. A perpetual paradise world of lush green jungle, 85 degree temperatures and warm shallow waters. Though I’m not a beach baby, this place is perfect for unwinding.

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We spent a few days in New York City last week and I instantly fell in love. We were convinced we wanted to move there. After nesting for a few months in California’s Palo Alto, NYC felt like a playground. Candlelit restaurants on street corners in Greenwich Village, hidden mewses and basement bars. The mega city is a walkable urban jungle that made me feel alive. It’s London life on steroids and we loved it. Wandering the cobblestone streets of the West Village made me wonder over and over again why I didn’t think to spend a few years of my twenties there.

Thankfully we escaped before hurricane Sandy touched ground. I’m going to need a few days to decompress.

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Child on the roof

Big city living in Buenos Aires is a strange brew of high-energy excitement, chaos and commerce. Nearly a quarter of Argentina’s 40 million residents live and dwell here. The city is sprawling, dirty and beautiful. Immaculate apartment lofts coexist alongside open garbage piles. It’s a metro of dichotomies. One day I am dining with friends of ex-presidents and the next am brought to tears by the humble love of the cleaning lady. I am enraged and heartbroken all at once, often at the extremes of human emotion amidst the poverty, excess and hardship that this city’s streets throw at me each day. I love and hate it here. It is a mirror that forces me to face the demons of my imperfection. Can I be compassionate, patient, open and strong? Will this city, with its anger and apathy, engulf me or will I rise above?

And then like a flash, a moment of pure innocence catches my breath. I am reminded of what is good and true.

Of God.

A little girl squeals with joy playing with her doll on a rooftop cement playground just after a rainstorm.

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A summer downpour.

It’s amazing how you can hop on a plane for twelve hours and skip the winter. It’s summer here in the Southern Hemisphere and every other day in Buenos Aires, we’re treated to a rainstorm. Warm, jungle-heavy, suddenly-starting-out-of-nowhere rainstorms. Beautiful.

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Sunday coffee in Palermo, Buenos Aires.

Often, the promise of a true tender moment is enough to compel us to travel half way around the world. How a quiet coffee at a street side café can be the most perfect thing in the world, I can’t explain. But on this Sunday morning, it was everything.

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After four years of renovations, Buenos Aires’ famous Teatro Colon opened on May 25th 2010, just in time of Argentina’s bi-centennial celebrations.  It has been named one of the top three opera houses in the world and is definitely something to behold.

We found tickets for the standing section at the very top, a section named Paradise. Seen as the nosebleeds section of the venue, it supposedly gets the best acoustics in the house. One thing they failed to mention and what we quickly remembered: heat rises. It gets hot up here. However, for 25 pesos each (about $6 USD), the experience was a total bargain!

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