A Girl in the World

Singapore

Singapore Botanical Gardens

January 27, 2010

It’s free, it’s beautiful and a great place to get lost in for a few hours on a very hot humid day. They have the National Orchid Garden there.

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Contradictions

January 27, 2010

Singapore is a land of contradictions.  I was only there a few days and on the outside the place seems so ordinarily Western (if not for the fact that it’s neurotically clean), but there were so many moments during my time there when my mouth would drop in shock over all the things that I learned about the place.

Gum is illegal.

So is smoking.

But prostitution is legal.  The working women get tested every two weeks and are taxed on their income.  Most of their customers aren’t local.  Most are migrant workers from India, China, the Philippines… men who are away from their families and sending money home.  Massages, even high-end ones, can almost always end in a happy ending.

They are building one of the biggest new casinos in Asia, but are charging locals 100$ to play. Tourists get to go free.

When you grow up, you either go to uni or serve in the army. There is no such thing as doing nothing.

There is a mall on every street corner (no joke).  You can walk for miles and miles and miles and miles inside a mall.

If you hurt a tree, you are fined.  At least 500$.

It is all so interesting.  A bit of a shock, a little confusing and in my humble opinion, somewhat elitist.  I won’t risk saying anymore to avoid offending anyone. Suffice it to say that the place is fascinating.

And the food!  THE FOOD!  Heaven!  Street markets galore – so delicious, so cheap and so safe!  =)

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Ah, so nice to be back.  =)  It’s warm, humid and super modern.  Last night I spent hours walking, eating and shopping.  =)  The shopping here is ridiculous.  You can walk for miles and miles and miles inside a mall.

I treated myself to a proper four star hotel and wow, does it make a difference.  My sheets and pillows are fluffy, I have international TV, the AC works properly and most importantly, I feel super safe.

I’ve written a lot about safety these last few days.  It makes such a difference to feel safe in the place you’re traveling in.  For some reason, I find it hard to find that sense of security in many parts of Asia and I’m not sure if it’s me and my lack of openness, or if it really is my gut telling me that things aren’t as innocent and easy as I’d assumed.  I think it’s a bit of both.

I’m disappointed that India didn’t go through.  I’ve always wanted to see it.  I’m going to plan a separate trip just for India, carrying 1/4 of the things I’m carrying now, with a proper itinerary booked from start to finish.  Research will start the moment I land in the U.S.  I cannot go the end of this year and not see India.  It’s on the list of things to do!

What’s next?  Ah, that is the golden question!  Well, a few weeks of downtime at home to heal the body and the mind.  And then a jaunt up to Vancouver to celebrate Canadian men’s hockey gold (fingers crossed!), and then some serious year planning.  =)  GMATs, writing, biz planning, consulting and home-hunting.

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Asia is …

January 21, 2010

… a great place to learn the difficult art of patience.

Like yesterday, when the bus to Melaka left 45 minutes late.  Why?  I don’t know.  I think the driver was having a smoke.

Or today when the commuter train didn’t show up for a half hour.  I could have walked to my destination.

Or in Ubud when the water shut off in the mid-afternoon.  Why?  I don’t know.

Or today when the cab driver insisted I pay him 10 RM instead of the 5 RM on the meter.  Right.  100% tip.  I’m generous, but not that generous.

Or the traffic.  Everywhere. Enough said.

Today, I am a more patient person.

Breathe.

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Random tidbits about Asia

January 19, 2010

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Sometimes I am guilty of taking Asia for granted.  Because I remember a lot of my early childhood from the Philippines (we lived there till I was 5), much of the scenery and culture in Asia feels familiar to me.  We spent weekends in the province among rice fields and bamboo cottages.  We pumped water from a well, tended to chickens and pigs in my grandparents’ backyard and have been part of most 3rd-world-country dodgy activities that the west would consider illegal (i.e. lighting large home made fireworks in the front driveway on New Year’s Eve).  I’ve seen dirt and poverty and pollution.  And foods like salted shrimp paste and rambutan and durian don’t surprise me.  But traveling through Asia this time around has really helped me to see this place differently.  I can decipher the things that are similar across countries and all the things that are different.  Though I hate to generalize an entire planetary region, there are several themes/foods/behaviours that ring true for many of the Asian countries I’ve visited thus far.  Here are a few:

  • Rice. If you’ve ever learned about how rice is harvested, you probably have a greater appreciation for the staple crop.  Growing rice is HARD WORK!  It is laborious and backbreaking.  It takes a whole community of people to tend to rice fields, to plant the seeds and to harvest the crop.  We take it for granted that it is so plentiful but oh my gosh, it is a crop grown with the labor of love.
  • Night markets. What is it about westerners and night markets?  I am staying in the middle of Chinatown in KL and at night the place is full of westerners buying fake Rolexes and Billabong shorts and LV rolling luggage bags.  I understand it feels exotic but there are markets like this in every major city in the world, including San Francisco!  The best part about these markets aren’t the things you can buy but the crazy foods that you can try.  Fried scorpions in Beijing, durian in KL, snake-skin fruit in Bali and fried salted fish galore everywhere.
  • Strange dessert foods that I loooove! Warm soy bean curd with brown sugar syrup (I used to have this for breakfast as a child in the Philippines and found a cart selling it just around the corner here in KL!), red bean pastries, sweetened cooked corn kernels in a cup (there is actually a fast food chain that sells this like McDonald’s sells chocolate covered sundaes), salted dried tamarind fruit, bubble tea (sweet juices with tapioca balls), black rice pudding, fried bananas.
  • Scooters. Everywhere.  They serve as long-haul buses for entire families: the mom, the dad, the two babies, the toddler, the 2 roosters, the couch and the neighbour.  They are utilized to the max and can dramatically change the economics of an entire community.
  • Fantastically prepared fruits and vegetables. Avocado juice (avocado blended with milk and sugar is amazing), salted pineapples, sweet mango with pungent shrimp paste, banana pancakes, ginger teas, sticky rice cooked in fragrant banana leaf, purple yam pudding, vinegar and sour green mango, jackfruit in warm rice and sweet milk.
  • Cheap movies. Though I don’t agree to purchasing pirated originals, I was shocked to walk into what looked like an HMV only to realize that I was browsing new release DVD copies that were selling for the equivalent of $1.50 USD each.  In the last two weeks I’ve seen the latest Harry Potter, Revolutionary Road (which is SO very depressing), the latest two Batmans and Underworld Revolutions for basically nothing.
  • Terribly unethical tobacco advertising. On TV tobacco advertisements are the equivalent of a mini Survivor Man movie.  They are disgustingly aspirational – touting adventure, ruggedness, masculinity and escape.  One shows a man trying to climb a snowy mountain.  He is overcome by an avalanche but manages to dig his way out to victory.  Then, BOOM, the “International” tobacco brand is plastered across the screen.  Tobacco is so very cheap in this part of the world.  Sadly, affordably addictive.

And now some interesting differences…

In Bali, even though I didn’t have international TV at all (not even the BBC or CNN), watching local TV was fascinating.  In one commercial break there were at least 3 or 4 different advertisements for what looked like psychics or fortune tellers or prophets of some kind.  They all touted things like success, health, happiness and love (guessing from what I could make out of Bahasa Indonesian).  You could text for a quote, or perhaps an appointment?  So interesting!

Kuala Lumpur (which means ‘muddy conglomerate’ because of the original site’s rich deposits of tin and silver) has been a real surprise!  I had always known that Malaysia is a Muslim country but never really thought about how that fact would translate when I got here.  It is so very multicultural and much more liberal than I originally anticipated.  There are people of all shapes and colours, veiled and unveiled, Asian and Western.  And the architecture is different from any other place I’ve seen in Asia because it’s Islamic.  Typically Islamic art has focused on the depiction of patterns and Arabic calligraphy instead of living figures because it is feared by many Muslims that the depiction of the human form is idolatry and a sin against Allah.  Thus, Islamic art and architecture will usually showcase beautiful floral and geometric designs (like the Petronas towers).

And well, the Philippines.  I could go on and on about how it is different but I would be a little bit biased with my insider’s view.  I would have to say that of all the strange foods that I’ve seen in other parts of the world, the Philippines tops my list for having the STRANGEST dishes of them all:

  • balut: a boiled, half fertilized duck egg with yoke and baby chick inside (I used to eat this as a child but can’t bring myself to have it now as an adult!)
  • kare-kare: meat (usually oxtail and innards) with coconut and peanut sauce
  • sisig: crispy fried (usually spicy) pork ears
  • dinuguan: pork blood stew with liver and meat
  • buro: fermented fish and fish eggs (the smell is just ridiculous!)

If you’re brave enough to try any of the above, you are invited to come with me when I go back to the Philippines next year!

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A few words on Singapore

January 6, 2010

Singapore is so much better than I expected, though I can’t really judge accurately considering I’ve only been here 22 hours.  It’s my stop en route to Bali, but I have to say that it’s nice.  A perfectly clean and beautiful Asian city with more malls than I can count.  How is it possible for one city to have SO MANY MALLS?!  No wonder my Mom loves this place!  Changi Airport is a destination mall in itself!

Anyway, I was here one night and managed to meet up with an old friend from Goog.  =)  So wonderful to see him happy and settled in a city that feels so so Asian and yet very international.  I didn’t get a chance to see much of the place but am saving room on my way back to SFO sometime within the next few months.  This place is hot and humid and such a pleasant relief from the crazy capital cities everywhere else in Asia.  It’s not polluted or dirty, and people are incredibly friendly.  Until next time Singapore.  We’ll meet again soon.

Next stop: Ubud, Bali.  I’ve been longing to see this place for years, ever since I read Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert (one of my all-time favourite books).  I found a place to stay just outside of town, amid rice paddies and jungles.  I cannot wait for a little R&R =)

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